I so agree with you Phoebe . There is no perfect match. We all have faults and we are a work in process that change with our circumstances . I love my freedom too and want my partner to know that me committing to him doesn’t give him the right to feel I am tied to him by a string. This doesn’t mean I am up to cheating or anything like that. I am committed to my partner but I need my space and time to do me at times and I want my partner to appreciate and give me that time alone space .